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Aug. 22nd, 2002 01:05 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
podlingSo I was talking to someone about BDS&M stuff the other day... actually mostly just about bondage. And at some point I said that I think most people are a little bit attracted (or turned on, more like) to a small amount of it. Not necessarily in a way that would be expressed regularly, but just kind of in the back of the mind.
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tanaise about it, she said this... "And I think that probably everyone has a little S/M side to themselves because everyone simultaneously wants completely control of their lives and total bossing about by someone else." And I think she makes a valid point...
Anyway, talking to
tanaise about it, she said this... "And I think that probably everyone has a little S/M side to themselves because everyone simultaneously wants completely control of their lives and total bossing about by someone else." And I think she makes a valid point...
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Date: 2002-08-22 01:28 pm (UTC)I loathe being told what to do in every other aspect of my life (probably one of the reasons I'm so strongly non-religious, and one reason I'm a feminist, as well), including general relationship stuff. But I find being submissive sexually a total turn on...kind of a "forbidden fruit" thing, for me, I think.