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[podling]

So I was talking to someone about BDS&M stuff the other day... actually mostly just about bondage. And at some point I said that I think most people are a little bit attracted (or turned on, more like) to a small amount of it. Not necessarily in a way that would be expressed regularly, but just kind of in the back of the mind.

Anyway, talking to tanaise about it, she said this... "And I think that probably everyone has a little S/M side to themselves because everyone simultaneously wants completely control of their lives and total bossing about by someone else." And I think she makes a valid point...

Comments

[astrophysicat.livejournal.com]

hey! No fair. I don't wear any of those things. Hell I don't even wear a wrist-watch, or even a belt for that matter. What does this mean about me? That I dream of having sex swimming free and unencumbered in the ocean?

Oh, well, that's true.... but but but. That doesn't mean I wouldn't necessarily also like to be tied... Well not while swimming, that would be fucking scary.

[stronae.livejournal.com]

Ooh! Wristwatch. Good one. Also about the bondage -- here, you're also bound to time as well. It's a two-for-one special in the house of astrophysicat. :)

If you actually do like to be tied, but you haven't worn any of the paraphenalia yet, then it just means that you haven't discovered the joys of wearing it yet. That's all.

[podling]

I made astrophysicat buy a belt that looked really cool when we went shopping last time, but she doesn't think she'll ever wear it. How sad is that?

[stronae.livejournal.com]

That's silly. Make her bring it down to D*C!

[podling]

Oh, she will! It's what it was bought for. Even if I end up being the one wearing it. I love it, I think it's a fabulous belt...

[deza.livejournal.com]

I've been tied up while swimming. It was part of a survival course I took once. It's actually surprisingly easy to do. And according to [Unknown site tag], it's cute, too.