(no subject)

[podling]

So I was talking to someone about BDS&M stuff the other day... actually mostly just about bondage. And at some point I said that I think most people are a little bit attracted (or turned on, more like) to a small amount of it. Not necessarily in a way that would be expressed regularly, but just kind of in the back of the mind.

Anyway, talking to tanaise about it, she said this... "And I think that probably everyone has a little S/M side to themselves because everyone simultaneously wants completely control of their lives and total bossing about by someone else." And I think she makes a valid point...

Comments

[deza.livejournal.com]

Heh, I have a specific anklet that I wear *just* when I feel like being tied up. It gives me a nice sense of being manacled, and very few people every guess why I'm in such a good mood on those days.

[stronae.livejournal.com]

Heh. I'll have to pay more attention to your feet, then. :)

[deza.livejournal.com]

Or my neck. I tend to wear my collar a lot, too.

[podling]

I know what you mean... I have this one necklace type thing that's bendable loosely woven together metals that sits tight on me however I bend it. And it's great! It's this sexy bound feeling...

Re:

[deza.livejournal.com]

Mmm, yes. Of course, the other advantage to wearing the collar is the most interesting people keep wanting to clip a leash to it!