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[podling]

So I was talking to someone about BDS&M stuff the other day... actually mostly just about bondage. And at some point I said that I think most people are a little bit attracted (or turned on, more like) to a small amount of it. Not necessarily in a way that would be expressed regularly, but just kind of in the back of the mind.

Anyway, talking to tanaise about it, she said this... "And I think that probably everyone has a little S/M side to themselves because everyone simultaneously wants completely control of their lives and total bossing about by someone else." And I think she makes a valid point...

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[sage-and-sea.livejournal.com]

Many people figured I was a top 'cause I'm a bit of a control-freak. Okay, a huge control freak. I was told my a Mistress I Respect hugely that control freaks and in-charge-all-day people make the best bottoms/subs ~ because when we give it up, we really give it up ;)

[shadesong.livejournal.com]

Exactly. :) I tend to be a huge control freak in my everyday life, and in bed? My submission is so complete that other subs are stunned.




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